If you are unhappy with any part of your life or anything in your life there is only 1 way to change it!
What won’t work at all EVER!
2. Blaming others
3. Making excuses
4. Doing nothing
5. Doing the same thing over and over again
There are many ways to take action.
Find a workable solution…. it can be a big move or something very small what’s important is that you take action in the direction you truly want to go. Anything else is a huge waste of time and energy.
I remember a thought one of my college professors Dr. Boozer, posed my junior year at Oswego that impacted the rest of my life to this point.
“If you are in a relationship and you can’t see yourself married to this person you are wasting your time…. he went on to say it doesn’t mean you have to marry this person, but if you know that you can’t see a life with them then move on….”
This saying stuck with me on so many levels. Not just in romantic relationships, but with probably just about every decision in my life. If I’m not truly enjoying my career, relationships, or life then what the heck is the point!!! Of course that doesn’t mean everything is perfect all the time, you definitely have to weight the pros and cons of situations. If the pros are not out weighing the cons move on. Like maybe you have a job that pays you a ton of money that’s a great pro that effects many other things. However, if this same great paying job is working you to death and you’re health is suffering then that creates a whole other list of additional cons as well. See you have to decide what it’s really worth. Cause without your health does it really matter how much money you make?
I’ve taken many actions throughout my life. Trust me I’m no different then you, I felt nervous and anxious and some fear. But luckily I felt much more fear about continuing to live my life from a place of complacency, kind of happy, or not quite living up to my potential and those fears moved me to TAKE ACTION!
I’ve always challenged myself and it something that I can say has made my life more enjoyable. I don’t settle I never have and I never will. I hope you don’t settle either… you are meant to live in joy. You were created to live and share from your ❤️ heart. So do it.
Take action and inspire yourself today!
1. Listen to and trust your own inner guidance. If you take the time to listen you will find all the answers are inside of you.
2. Seek out support from people who are doing what you want to be doing. Ask for help from someone you respect.
3. Connect with others who want to find solutions. Synergy is when two or more things come together to create a greater impact then either ever could alone.
4. Not sure where to start?
Let yourself feel your emotions. UNLOCK THE POWER OF EMOTIONS TO ATTRACT MORE LOVE
Write a Pro and Con list about your issue of concern. Then brainstorm possible solutions.
Some times waiting before taking action can be useful as long as you are using the time to create some possible solutions, that’s still a form of action! WHY WAITING CAN PROVE TO BE USEFUL IN LIFE
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